So, I've been seeing this guy for 2 months now and after 2 weeks we had sex and about 4 days after that he told me he wasn't over his ex and he just started getting distant. When we continued to talk he realized I wasn't going anywhere so we got back on good terms then he texted me and was like we still friends right? come to find out he started dating his friend of one year but they broke up after a wk cause she looked at him as a brother. We started back talking after I told him he was scared of loving someone that's willing to love him back which was me. He started saying he miss me and he sorry and he want to be with me but he never really made it official. After a month I saw him and we had sex again. every time I ask him about us he doesn't text back as if he's ignoring the question. Why won't he answer me or make me his girlfriend if I'm what he's looking for?
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Darling there's something important here... He's you're typical guy, afraid of commitment and treats sex as "sport-fcuking" ... He's unfortunately NOT that into you and when he apologizes he's doing it to keep you on good terms for maybe just sex. Truth is, he doesn't know what he wants himself and that he's using you for the time being. He's bouncing around in between 3 girls, can't you see a pattern emerge? Chances are you're NOT what he's looking for, because he would have asked you to be his girlfriend by now. Do this. DON'T "ask him about us". DON'T give him sex. TELL him if he wants more of you he'll have to show you. Honestly, darling you seem like a genuine girl and you will NOT be "single4ever" if you can see patterns like these emerge. DROP this guy. LOSE this guy. You're wasting your time when you could go find the right guy. Hope this helped!4
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