This girl I know has been flirting with me for a long time and she is now telling other people that we are dating. We are not dating and it is getting hard to ignore her and Morgan, who is my girlfriend. How do I tell her we are not dating and that I already have a girlfriend without hurting her feelings.
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First off, you don't use the words "Most likely." That tells her that you're interested and she needs to make you MORE interested. It tells her she has a chance. You have a girlfriend; she has no chance.
You cannot avoid hurting her feelings. She needs a wakeup call, because what she is doing is disrespectful to you and your girlfriend, not to mention hurtful toward your girlfriend. You need to tell her straight up. "We are not dating and we never will be. STOP telling people that." Don't call her names or anything to be cruel, but don't be afraid of hurting her feelings. BE FIRM. If she doesn't stop, you have to stop talking to her and seeing her.1