I have been in a relationship with this guy for 5years now. But I haven't met any of his family members. Nor have I been taken to any functions. How ever, I did meet his brother for about 5mins (Meeting wasn't supposed to happen). I prodded over this a million times and he always comes up with some or the other excuse saying his parents are not too positive on love marriages and that he is not ready to take their torture and the drama that follows. I do not know what to do. After having several fights and arguments, he introduced me to few of his friends. I am pretty serious and I have introduced him to all my friends and family. My parents want me to tie the knot by next year end. I am worried.
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If a man has two women, its simpler if friends and family don't know about them. Introducing them to everyone is a sure way to get caught, or in the very least, get preassure about the immorality of running two.
The only hole in his story about the parents not being too keen on love marriages is that he hasn't mentioned their alternative, i.e., who they were planning to arrange him for. In all of the 5 years, you should of at least heard him fret about that. I would suspect no arrangements have been made and the parents would really have no ground to stand on in speaking against a love marriage without providing an alternative.
He could be telling you the truth. Maybe. :) Probably two timing you though...