we had a fight last weekend and have made up now. we were mad at each other maybe 2 days then he started calling, wanting to come over and making plans for the weekend. so last night he was sleeping and got a text at like 10 at night. it kept going off so I tried to silence it, its a new phone so I was playing around with it. I accidentally opened his texts. I see a convo between his cousin and him from the night of the fight when we left that cousins house. we got into it on the way home from there. we were both in a bad mood and it would have never happened if not for that. he was so mad he just brought me home and left and went to his house instead of spending the rest of the day with me. so the messages said this "she started bitching as soon as we got in the truck, so I brought her home and left" and this which concerns me "she made me mad for the last time, pissed me off and I'm not putting up with that crap"
is that normal to just talk like that to other guys about your gfs? he says he loves me and we have been talking about marriage and getting a house next year. we have made up since then and he never said anything about maybe breaking up or having space after the fight. so I don't know what to think. is it bad for our relationship that he said that?
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You already made up, so what he said in confidence to his cousin is irrelevant.0