TBH I've never dated a girl before but plan on asking a girl to date me today.
If she says yes, in what ways would I act differently, aka how do I get past the touch barrier. Like start holding hands and what ever. That's mainly what I want to know. We hug and whatever but do I just randomly grab her hand as we're walking, it seems that would be weird.
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No no no! Hopefully you're not going to literally ask her to date you? You have a long way to go before you think about touching. You should be worrying about what kinds of fun things you can do on the date...and where you're going to go. Lets say she agrees to ONE date. The only touching you should do is when you're helping in/out of the car...or up/down steps. Other than that you keep your hands to yourself until she asks you to be her bf...which will normally occur around the 5-6th date if you're a good job on the dates.
She is the only one who knows when the right time to touch is. Let her initiate the touching. If and when she does...its not a green light for you to touch! Just be cool...let her come to you. Doing this will make you different...interesting...and raise her attraction level. By not touching her...she will become more trusting and comfortable with you. It will drive her crazy...and she will be in a sense chasing you.
The only other touching you should do is after the 2nd date (if you make it there) kiss her then...and after every date after that. Let her dictate if, when, and how much touching there will be.6
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