The thing is that whenever I'm interested in a guy, it turns out that he wants to date once and then no more. I'm a good listener and I love a laugh, I like hanging out so I don't get why they turn me down for a second date.
My gut tells me that these guys don't really want me, but what I can do for them (sex, attention) and when I stop giving them attention (I never give sex), they start being cold and act uninterested..
Can't they just enjoy my company and be happy I'm with them?
p.s. I've never had a boyfriend, I'm 20 now. Totally confused too.
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The problem is almost certainly not you, or limited to you. MANY girls feel this way at you age.
Many/most guys your age don't want a committed relationship with ANYONE. What they want is fun and sex and no commitments. There are exceptions, but you have to find them and do a bit of work to get them.
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