So I've been dating this guy non-exclusively for a few months. We've been on two dates. Going on a third when he comes back from being underway in the usn.
First & Second date were SO much fun. I hugged him at the end of each and he hugged back semi-tight. However I did not give 'signals' to kiss or anything even though I really wanted to.. Mostly because I'm VERY shy and felt nervous.
I like him a lot. I've known him for 6 months now. Met him on a dating site. We are always talking. Sometimes we go a few days, no more than a week without communication.
He's mentioned one other girl that he's started dating as well to me but he told me she was a stage 5 clinger and crazy. He ended up blocking her recently and then he changed his number and he texted me with the new one. He's been real flirty with me.
I think I messed up by not kissing him or something by the second date. I'm not talking about sex or anything.
When he mentioned the other girl I was hurt thinking I had competition and I didn't like that, I don't like games.. but I played it off cool since we're not exclusive of course.
He left today for 2 months for work but we keep in touch now via email. Do you think it's time for the talk? I REALLY DON'T want to be the one. but since I felt that way when he mentioned the other girl, should I bring up like where we're going? (only been on two dates.. but been talking for 6 months)
I'm reaaaally nervous.I have two months to change the nervousness lol
I won't bring it up (whew...) lol but I'm just confused/scared/nervous.