So I used to hug my ex boyfriend when we were friends and when we were dating...but now that he's my ex I don't want to hug him anymore. What do I do? Especially if he opens his arms to give me a hug...I know it's f***ed up but after dating him...naturally I don't really see him the same way. Hence..I don't want to hug him anymore. If I sound like a bitch about it...I'm sorry...I guess. I just don't like hugging him anymore...
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I wouldn't hug an ex anymore unless I still have feeling for him and hopes of getting back together. I think that honesty is the best thing to do, just be honest and tell him that now that you guys aren't together its hard for you to accept his hugs.
You will feel much better plus in this life you have to always please yourself first before pleasing others.0