or is that for grown men use to get with girls?
I was discussing teens dating young adults with my mother. She was saying 20 year olds dating 16 year olds are not normal (either immature or wants something other than love).
I asked "What if the 16 year old is mature for her age?"
And she basically said: "bullsh*t"
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It depends - Maturity and what I feel is "real" age is not determined by how many years you live but rather what you have faced in your life. A person who is 15 can live through a much more complicated life than a 50 year old and thus have a greater sense of maturity. It's not always the case but an example is if someone lives a cushy rich life from 1-30 they can be as immature as a normal 6 year old when they are 30. Take Paris hilton for an example...she's basically a 12 year old. I've lived through a lot and when I was 18 many people didn't believe I was under 25 due to how I acted.
The other issue is that most guys are only out for one thing. I'm not one of those guys however I'd say 80% are. So most guys would only be with a girl for one thing and if she's 16 and he's 20 it can normally only be bad.
Long story short most times it's a no however every once in awhile there can be a good guy and a smart girl or vise versa and things can click.
Hope this helps!0