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What is apple bees? Sorry new one to me.
First date: I want her to be her. That's why I asked her out in the first place. It is like some big event and you take your girlfriend. Normally her hair is nice, etc". But because this is a special event she puts her hair up and puts sticks and flowers and stuff in it and it looks like a bird's nest. And the you think "why can't she just look like normal? Normal for her is lovely?".
Same thing here he asked you out because he likes you, not your bird's nest.
As far as paying, if it is a date, he pays. If you're not sure what is, then offer to pay your half.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE