I purposely didn't text my boyfriend all day yesterday and most of this morning to see if he would text me first! And guess what he never texted me and he wondered why I didn't text him yesterday he thought I was mad I was like no I was busy(that was a lie ) but I want to ask guys this question do you normally wait for your girlfriend to text you or do you text them if you don't text first why don't you do it?
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Most guys hate texting, especially "conversational" texting. That doesn't mean he doesn't like talking to you; he does. He just wants to do it face-to-face, and not with a stupid phone intermediary.
He got in this relationship to be with YOU, not with his phone.
And guys are different than girls in that, while he was almost certainly thinking about you yesterday, he doesn't feel the need to interrupt his day, and yours, to tell you whatever thought popped in his head. Instead, if he thought of something worth telling you, he'll save it for when you talk the next time, preferably in person. Unless it's an emergency or some other huge news, he can wait. Girls tend to want to share everything RIGHT NOW, while they're still feeling whatever they're feeling, but guys just don't work that way.
Again, this does NOT mean he doesn't like you or anything like that. He just wants to be able to see/hear/feel you when he talks to you, not sit and type on his phone.
Texting for most guys is goal-oriented: to get you a short, timely piece of information, or get such info from you. Guys don't like having CONVERSATIONS over text, and clearly, that's what you're looking for.3