When do you text/IM first, and when do you wait for the other person?

It seems I usually message first, but then I feel like I'm needy so I back off. But then he doesn't message me.


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  • Guys don't usually like to message, unless it's the start of the relationship.

    So yeah, it's kind of expected that girls will message more, and initiate messages more.

    That's not being needy.

    6 unanswered texts a day might be considered a bit needy though.

    • why don't guys like to msg?

    • When women talk/text, it releases dopamine, a feel-good hormone.

      Men don't have that.

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