Okay first of, its been a little under a year since the last time I got on this site but I had a few questions lately that I wanted answers too.. and remembered this site.
but to my question, I have been seeing this guy off and on now, for 7-8 months. He is 22. Me being seventeen, a lot of people really do not like the idea of us being together,
I know I have very strong feelings for this guy, and we have been through enough for me to know, that its going to take a lot for these feelings to change.
Is it really all that bad? I feel that I'm old enough to make my own decisions on who to date, and who to like.
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you're young. when you're that young, the feelings of liking someone are ten times stronger when you're older and know EXACTLY what you want in another person in terms of what you want for the future. I fell in love when I was 16, and it was head over heels. I'm 27 now, and the way I go into a relationship is a lot more practical than back then, but nothing will be as pure as the love I felt for my first love. (not saying this guys your "first love").
what concerns me is you say it's "off and on". If it's off and on, then I say forget it. He's definitely not pining over you at home when the relationship is "off". trust me. Just be single and free and live your life, you're so young, enjoy it.0