I know I over think almost everything, but I've been trying to keep it simple with this new beau I have in my life. He's honestly THE coolest, funnest, funniest guy I've ever ''been'' with. And not to mention, I find him drop dead gorgeous. We get along SUPER good, and always joke around and have a good time. We started hanging out a little over 3 months ago, and things were good. Taking it slow, very slow, we hung out and got to know one another really good. We go out on dates, we have sleep overs (not to mention, he lives with my best friend), we always go to parties.. together. At the party`s we do our own thing, he's with the boys and I'm with the girls, and at the end of the night, we meet up and do our own thing. Its great! We do all the ''couply'' things... I went to a wedding (his family) with him this summer, so I met most of them, and they all love me. He came to my family tournament, and hit it off with everyone there. And they all really like him. Not only all this, but he makes future plans with me... for stuff that months down the road. In my opinion, if he was'nt interested in anything further than ''just friends'', why bother making plans for event, and other things that are months away?
I guess what I'm confused about is why its taking him so long to just say what he wants.. to make his decision. I'm usually not one to wait around for some guy who can't make up their mind.. but with this guy.. It's different.
Also, I am NOT the outspoken type of girl... if somethings bothers me... I just keep it to myself and eventually get over it. But, it still does bother me..
I guess my real questions here... is WHAT THE EFF DO I DO?
- simply ask him... hey. so what's going on with us
- ignore, and wait around for him -.-
- walk away, and see if he follows.. if he doesn't, then simply just keep walking.
I NEED YOUR HELP!
All of these things are great, but he sometimes (half the time) keeps himself set back... When I leave his house, we never kiss on the lips, its always that awkward hug.. I always have to be the one who asks to do stuff or hang out. He was out of town for a week, came back did not put in an effort to want to hang out. He was hurt big time in a previous relationship, and said that's holding him back
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I am not even sure what the problem is other than you two have not verbalized what from above seems abundantly clear. You two are an item. Why would you walk away from that.
If you need that verbal closure (and it is normal that you would) just ask him "What are we exactly and where are we going?"
Based on what you said above I would be surprised if it wasn't what you want/expect.0