Me and my ex boyfriend broke up on good terms. We talked only twice since the break up, it's been two weeks. I saw him today and my heart sunk and I put my head down... I'm not sure if he saw me, but I'm afraid that if he really does see me... will he just keep on walking and ignore me. I don't want to text him or call him. We never "loved" each other, we just liked each other, so we decided to stay friends which is okay with me. Deep down, I still have a crush on him but I'm okay with not being with him. I wouldn't want someone to be with me for pity anyway. My question is, why don't guys text first? I would like to talk to him, see what's up... but I feel like he doesn't want to bother with me since he hasn't made a effort to text me.