I went out on first date with this guy I met online this past Saturday. I texted him after the date thanking for dinner (since he paid) and stating jokingly that "next one is on me ;)" he replied "It was my pleasure, hope you enjoyed yourself :) You're very welcome, have a good night!" And that was it. I haven't heard from him since, and I'm getting really nervous. Is he blowing me off? Or is he following the stupid rule about waiting few days? And I don't even mean that he should ask me out again like right away, but is it normal for a guy to not talk to you AT ALL after the first date, and after few days ask you out again? It's been 2 days now, should I just give up? If not, what is an acceptable time frame to give him? And guys please don't say I should write to him first, because I already told him "next one is on me" so clearly he knows I am interested and want there to be a "next one."
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It's normal. Guys do it all the time. He don't want to seem to desperate to ask you out on another date so soon. Give it like another week. That is the plan lol. He wants you to think that way. Just to proof the point, you posted on here about it. I have 90 % faith that he will message you in a week or so. Have faith and trust in God. I did the same thing with all my girls. One thing I regret was being to available with the last girl that I really like. However, if yall get to an actual relationship then yall should stop these little games.0