So, a friend set me up on a blind date with her good friend. We have gone on a few dates, and we get along well. She's smart, cute, and very nice. She's very affectionate, which I really like.
The only thing is, she seems to come from a wealthy family. She always comes in a nice car. Tonight it was a new Lexus (her family has a few different cars). She has nice clothes and talks about her and her friend going on a cruise in the near future. I on the other hand come from a very modest background. I drive a plain Jane Camry, and have never set foot on a cruise ship.
I feel uncomfortable with this, and worry that it will raise issues. It's not like she acts like a brat. She has a few part time jobs and works hard. It's just that I'm concerned that I won't be able to impress her or afford to take her on fancy dates. I work hard and make enough money to take her to dinner, movies, drinks, etc, but I can't help but feel like a bum...
Has anyone been in a similar situation? Thoughts?
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Not all girls are impressed with money, not all girls would consider money a reason to date or not date someone.
If she seems nice and lovely, just go on more dates! I'm sure she doesn't mind.
I once dated a guy who was kinda rich, and I felt uncomfortable too. We broke up but not because of the money. I know it can be quite intimidating if someone's wealthy. If you feel more comfortable with her, try to raise the issue and see what she says? Like I said, I'm sure it won't raise a problem or anything.0