I'm having trouble with this. My ex broke up with me about 10 months ago. Whom I really cared about and gave him everything. I did love him a lot. Still do...He really hurt me and broke up with me. He knows it. Dated a girl after me whom he really fell for but she screwed him over really bad. Cheated on him. Broke up with him.
He came out to a club his sister and our friend's go to tonight. I saw him and talked to him. Small talk. I haven't seen him in about 2 months. Which was good for me. I started to forget him.
He's been messaging me and texting me for the past week. Asking how I am...The thing which is bothering me is after he left tonight he texted me" I'm gonna swallow my pride and tell you that you looked very beautiful tonight"... What does that really mean?
After that I said "I get that a lot ;)" Just joking round then thanked him. He said I deserve a good guy. I hope I knew that. Said I was better off without him and he deserved everything that he got from his recent ex after me...
Guys, why would he text me this? Telling me I looked beautiful...Especially when he knows how I feel. Just brought back feelings...I know I should have ignored it but I couldn't resist and now I'm confused. Maybe I'm thinking to much. Trying my hardest to move on. I'm sry I'm just heartbroken still...Some advice and input would be nice from anyone...
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He is preying on your vunerable status and telling you things he knows will get you second guessing why you feel the way you do about him, but you need to make sure that he is aware that you are aware that you deserve better, and will continue to get better, because if he realizes you still like him, he will use you like before, he only wants what he cannot have, but once you give it to him, he will return to be the jerk you know him as. Don't let him into your life again, if he wants to meet up, tell him that its not a good idea because your current boyfriend wouldn't like it, he will then go away, he will realize his chance was blown with you when he dumped you, he will then realize he made a mistake, but you will go on to bigger and better things, an ex should always remain an ex, make sure he realizes your not damaged because of him, you just expect better things in men because of him, and going backwards is not an option for you,good luck,x0