Would you want to know? What if they did not tell you about it since it was hard for them to discuss about it but you found out from another source? Would you lay out some ground rules if that person stays with the molester since they don't have an option and your girlfriend/boyfriend isn't being molested anymore?
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Wow that's hard because it can be really hard on them. You may want to try talking about it with them first. Because being molested could really screw someone up especially if handled in the wrong way. Try to be caring and concerned when you talk to them. And then when you find out more about the situation you can mention ground rules. But mostly you should try to help them and be caring about the situation their in. That's how I would try to handle it. And let them know it doesn't make them a bad person in any way because it wasn't their fault.hope this helps and things get better.1