I've been talking to this really cute guy for a few weeks now. We were texting the other day & the convo went something like this:
him: what are you doing this weekend?
me: I'm going to a lounge this Saturday
me: It would be even cooler if you could come with me.
The reason why I mentioned the part about him coming with me was because he's been asking me a lot lately when we were gonna hangout. (We have never hang out before)
obviously, he turned me down even if he didn't say "No I don't wanna come with you" All he said was "Oh" and have yet to text me back. its been days now since he text that. He usually call or text me every morning & has even given me a cute nickname. I wish he would've been happy to hang out with me or at least give me a better response as to why he won't come. I want to know, what should I do if this guy text me back again. I plan to permanently ignore his text msgs. (1)Do I have to actually tell him to please don't text me anymore? OR (2)should I continue texting him and see if he redeems himself later? Thanks
he usually text or call me every morning and has even given me a cute nickname.
- YES. Just to see how things will turn out or if things will gradually changeVote A
- NO. His brief text message says everything.Vote B
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His response doesn't necessarily have to mean no. The "oh" could simply mean that he was surprised you said that and it was more like "Oh, is that right?"
If you had continued the texting then you'd know. He might be sitting there confused wondering why you are ignoring him.
It was weird of him to answer with just that, but texting is a tool made for misunderstandings.