I was having a girl over for dinner and we had fun. there were a lot of positive signs but she also talked about a guy she was dating. When I didn't really reply she re-phrased herself and told me it was not actually dating but they went out a couple of times and she didn't hear from him for a while...that got me confused... am I in the friend zone or was she trying to test me?
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Testing? I never understood this 'testing' concept fully. Did you ask her if she was dating anyone? Perhaps this was just her honest answer? Rarely do I act in a certain way, or say something just to coax a reaction.
Anyhow to answer your question, I don't think you are friend zoned. She retracted her statement and made it clear they were not serious. Honestly, I think she may have just been sharing some personal information with you. What might have happened is she realized what she was sayin and tried to back pedal. Sounds like she was more interested in that guy than he was in her. Also, sounds like she might've caught herself from pushing you away.0