I'm 21 and haven't had my 1st kiss yet. When guys ask me how many BF's I have had, I always tell them the truth saying that I haven't had my 1st kiss and therefore, haven't had a BF.
Whenever I tell a guy, he will text me later saying, "So you really haven't had your 1st kiss?" "You're so gorgeous, how is this possible?" "You're such a cool girl." This will be the topic of conversation for like weeks!
I don't understand. Is it really a big deal? Why?
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Well, a lot of guys assume (incorrectly) that every girl who has a decent personality or good looks has been through tons of boyfriends. Believe it or not, a fair number of girls who are seniors in high school, even college grads, who have not been kissed. She could be picky, shy, she could intimidate other men, been busy with other things besides dating, etc. As a guy, we find it hard to believe at times, but a mature man won't hold it against you. As the other poster below said, a lot of them are just incredulous.1