I have a close guy friend. We tell each other everything, even embarrassing things. We are touchy, we are always hugging or hitting one another. We even bite each other. We go on walks a lot. We like to watch movies and cuddle up together. We spend the night at each others places. We made out once. We kissed another time. But most of the time he just puts his forehead against mine and looks into my eyes or swishes his nose against mine. You probably think my question is stupid... but I guess it's just he's never said he does. He tells me that I'm beautiful, he tell me I'm amazing, he says he'd never hurt me... He tells me that he loves me... but I'm sure he means as a friend. He kisses my cheek or my neck when we say goodbye... but other times he fist pounds me? He's never said anything about how he feels about me... Of course I haven't said anything to him either. The thing is he is an amazing person. Not only is he my favorite person to spend time with but he is also ridiculously attractive. a solid 9.9 out of 10. See, I'm not ugly but I am no model... I must be enjoyable to be around as I have never had any problems making friends... I don't even have to try. But I still feel that he is WAY out of my league and that there must be some other explanation for these seemingly couple like experiences between us.
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I can say from personal experience that being attracted to a friend that you spend a lot of time with and are close with can be incredibly confusing for a guy, especially if you don't know whether or not you want to try for a relationship. The last thing he wants is to lose you as a friend but at the same time he wants you in more ways than just a friend, as evidenced by the kissing and the compliments (compliments are not the strongest evidence, I call friends of mine beautiful if I have no intentions to them, but I certainly wouldn't kiss them). He definitely sounds like he likes you and if you like him maybe try and move towards a relationship if you want it. Best friends like you two often make the best couples as you trust each other and are not afraid to tell each other everything and the last thing you want is to lose each other.
If you look like a couple and sound like a couple, then odds are you are either close to being a couple or are one. It clearly seems that he doesn't care what league you are in, your friendship has bridged the gap between what you perceive as different leagues.
I say he likes you and you clearly like him because you are asking about it so I say go for it. You have already been sliding into relationship stuff, just let yourself fall into it. Next time you say good bye just give him the biggest kiss you can and he will get the message I think.2
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