I had this whole spiel planned out
and everything. But, then I feel my
point gets lost in translation. So,
the simple question is, why do so
many people put limitations on
themselves when it comes to
What I mean by "limitations" is
having this extensive list of
looks, personality traits and
all this other stuff that doesn't
matter, that no real genuine
flawed human being could ever
live up to and more importantly
would be quite dull if they did
fit all the unnecessary things on the
For example: Height, weight, eye color,
hair color, hair length, muscle mass,
sizes of more intimate body parts.
Then there's : liking the same, movies
music, television shows, books, restaurants,
types of food, having the same hobbies,
the same likes and dislikes, etc etc.
Also: adding religion and politics to the
mix. Which might enter the category of
values and beliefs, however I'm open
minded person so I never made these
two topics or anything else that I mention
or didn't mention a part of what I look
for in a person. There's things that really
matter and can't be compromised on. Then
there's things that don't matter or shouldn't
matter that much, that can be compromise
if you're both willing to do so.
I have general bases of what's important,
but at the same time I don't limit myself
to specific "type", because I'm just not
gonna do that it's not my style.
So, why do people limit themselves to one
type? And, do you do that? If so why?
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I don't believe in long lists.
She just has to be reasonably attractive (I find a wide variety of looks attractive/cute/pretty, etc.), has a pleasant personality, a few things we're going to enjoy in common, loves to smile and be friendly and be loyal. Beyond that, you don't need a lot in a woman. Any guy that keeps adding more and more to the list to get a girlfriend will end up being disappointed. Unless you're looking to get married and want someone to be your soul mate for life, there's no need for girls to be super picky either.0