"We weren't compatible!" "We weren't compatible!"
What overused and undefined buzz statements in the world of dating these above statements are! *yawn*
I'm asking this ? to bring some definition to these usually undefined statements.
Simple ? here...what "compatibility issues" have you had with people that you've dated? It can be anything,
from each others' families,
to compatibility with each others' friends,
to overall cultural compatibility,
to current job/career and said aspirations,
to personality traits (flirting with others, the "personal ticks" of one's personality),
to behavior when living together,
to your "goal" of dating this person (short-term fling, marriage, having children, etc.),
to each others' attitude and actions towards caring about one's health, fitness, and overall appearance (aka "taking care of yourself"),
to each others' physical, emotional, and sexual needs and the effort to fulfill them,
Please elaborate as much as you wish so we can understand what "compatibility issues" you have encountered (or are now encountering) in your dating experiences.
Thanks for answering and sharing your knowledge for all of us to understand.
P.S. Feel free to guess the Pokemon! :-D
Most Helpful Girl
The biggest compatibility issues that I have had come from personality differences.
The last guy that I hung out with tended to keep all of his emotions locked up inside with me, but he would talk to our mutual friend to try to discover more about me. He asked her how I was and since he was too shy to ask me, he would ask her to bring me to parties, events, etc.
I am a very forward person and like to talk directly. I strongly disapproved of his talking to our mutual friend because I am more of a private person. I did not like that he could not come to me and ask me to go places.
Simply put, our personalities were not compatible.1