As the question says, I'm 34 and single. I have never made it past a 3rd date with anyone. I have tried talking to women while out and about, letting friends set me up and online dating. Nothing works, ever. I know I can say anything I want on here to make me look better, but it gets old because my women friends (who are all married) ALWAYS comment on how they think I am good looking, a gentleman, very well dressed and have a lot of depth. They try to set me up, but inevitably whoever they try to set me up with will stop wanting to see me after a couple of dates. They always say I seem distracted and not in the moment with them. I can't help this tendency. If we are just in the initial small talk phase, I am constantly analyzing everything in my head and trying to formulate a way to get into who the woman really is. I can't shut this off. For those familiar with MBTI, I am an INTP, so I get very bored with small talk and naturally try to push conversations to something in depth and interesting, which also seems to annoy the hell out of women.
So, to you ladies out there who are familiar with the INTP type, (those who aren't, look it up and maybe you can give me some insight too) why is it you guys hate INTPs so much, and is there any hope?
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past 28 a women will desperately seek a DADDY for her children up until 35 where it's the last ride until she stays single forever. That's why maybe they tell you, you don't make moves fast enough. They want commitment out of you and will be able to tell if you can provide that or not in 2 - 3 dates why do you think your having such a hard time and also once you fail. She will inform her network of friends that you failed (or simply what it is that she figured out about, and dating women).
I've had a woman flirting with me during my working hours telling me what she was stuying where she was working and wanted to know the same information's about me. She also approached me using the I've been watching you for a while. I'm my mind I was like WTF is this a joke.0