So my boyfriend and I were texting and I texted him and ask '' Babe, Do you plan on being together forever? Well his my boyfriend people I would think he would say yes babe, what made you say that but his reply was " We going along with things and see how far we go! Now what's he trying to say cause we been together going on 3years and I don't like his answer, need advice ?. What is he really trying to say! !
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You freaked him out, so he replied spontaneously with the first thing that came to his mind. :)
He thought you were talking about marriage and kids. Believe it or not, guys do freak out when they feel trapped even if he loves you very much. Your message seemed - to him - like a tricky question which made him freak out.
I guess he was trying to 1) be honest with you. He truly is enjoying your company. He loves you, but he isn't thinking about the future the way you do. He doesn't have the word "forever" in his dictionary, EVEN if he is planning on being forever with you. Guys don't like to be put in a corner. They feel pressured and manipulated. Again, this doesn't mean he isn't planning on staying with you forever. Guys don't voice their feelings the way we do, is all.
2) He was trying to get your hopes down a bit. It's like "Wow, please don't say that. We are having fun together. Why should we be talking marriage and stuff?" He was trying to find a way out. He wasn't trying to hurt you by any means.
He was trying to say that he loves you, cares for you, enjoys every single day with you (which proves being 3 years together), but isn't ready to talk marriage. He just freaked out in the moment and didn't know what to say. Hence, he replied with whatever came to his mind at the moment. He didn't mean to hurt you.
Hope this helps. :)1