This guy I've been dating he used to take 30 min-1 hr to reply my text message in the beggining(it's been only few weeks)
but now it takes +6 hrs... sometimes he'd text within 30 min but it happens rare..
is this showing that he's not into me anymore..?
he'd carry the convo and always reply though..
if he is not interested, he'd just ignore or send short texts..right?
He brought the exclusive talk last time when we met (second date) which I responded bluntly because I wasn't ready.im hoping I can figure something when I see him next time
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I'm going to assume you're talking about texts sent at sometime during the day when he'd normally be awake. Not at 1AM when he'd typically be sleeping. Six hours is quite a long time to delay sending a response.
I wouldn't rule out his being interested. He might be trying too hard NOT to seem desperate (and scare you off). But still, best case scenario? He's playing a head game with you, because it only takes twenty seconds to respond to a damn text, and regardless of your job, you can find a way to make those twenty seconds in an hour or two at MOST, unless he's in a high-pressure, demanding job, like an ER surgeon.
Don't stress over it. Maybe the next time he responds after waiting six hours, tell him "Oh, good, you're still alive, I was starting to wonder".
Alternate possibility, he's in a relationship with someone else, and is trying to keep your texting to times when he can do it on the sly. It's not like it'd be hard to just go to the bathroom to respond though, so I don't think that's the case, unless he's a moron.0