So at this moment I'm offically dating one of the hottest guys in school. He's the deffinition of perfect<3. Before he dated me he dated an UGLY A** girl who he was extremely into. Liam (my boyfriend, but not his real name) has dated 17 girls before me. I've met 3 of them. One is tomboy-ish but pretty, one is GORGEOUS, and the other is butt ugly.
My problem is that I don't know how to interpret why he asked me out again (this is our second time dating) when he told me I was his second choice after the ugly chick. Every guy has called me cute or occasionally gorgeous (when I wear makeup). I mean, I have like 13 guys up my butt right now trying to get with me. I can't walk down the hall or street without some guy trying to talk to me or sayin 'damn she cute' to their friends. Or if I'm at the store or meeting my dads friend etc there's ALWAYS someone telling my dad or me that I'm extremely pretty. I just don't want people looking at us together and going 'Hes so hot! Why is he with her?' I just won't feel pretty enough and I guess it's because I didn't start getting pretty or skinny until summer of high school. What do you think?
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I knew you werent ugly after reading the first sentence. Do you think the hottest guy in the school would date an ugly girl? Unless you're super nasty in bed and doing ratchet sh*t like giving him money you're not one of the ugly girls. guys with options rarely if ever date uggos. Also ugly girls don't get every guy saying how beautiful she is
You have to be very very pretty and beautiful. Make sure the way you feel about yourself matches up to the way you look on the outside. you are beautiful and really don't need the validation of others because when you start letting other people make you feel good about yourself, all it takes is one negative comment for you to plummet
You're used to being in your awkward stage so your not used to the compliments yet. you still feel like you werent pretty but you are.
Dont compare yourself to other girls. there's always gonna be a pretty girl. who cares? that doesn't take away from your pretty. You need to stop letting this guy play you. How you gonna let a guy say "oh you're my second choice"? that's pretty disrespectful and players like to say things like that to gain the upper hand and make the girl feel insecure (like what's happening here). obviously you're the sh*t, you just need to recognize it0