My really good friend told me a while back that he liked me. Although he's not someone I'd normally go for, he has a lot going for him. He's a really hard worker, has an amazing sense of humor, is easy to be around, and just over all makes me happy.
But I've never been one just to date for the sake of it, a long term relationship kind of girl.. So thinking in that way: He takes a lot of care of his family who are (for lack of a better word..) losers, basically he's going to need to be helping them out for the rest of his life. And I really don't want to be the witchy chick that steals him away because they're holding him down. His family is really nice, but extremely quiet and awkward.. They also aren't motivated at all and can't/don't support themselves.
So, great guy, lame family. Do I date him?
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Nope, you should not date him because you are a judgmental bitch and such a good guy with so much going for him deserves a better female than that. You need to get off your high horse and act like you are in some all mighty position to be judging his family. You don't know his family's history and why they are the way they are. It is completely insensitive and ugly for you to call them losers simply for being "extremely quiet and awkward". You don't know the situation behind their lack of self support. You're a judgmental bitch and you should go find a judgmental guy, not an awesome guy. So no, don't date him.4
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