So he's a little shy towards me but he talks to me a lot in person and we laugh and have a good time. We haven't hung out yet but he wants to on his next stretch of days off.
If I text him he'll text me back pretty quick! But he doesn't usually text me first. Any ideas? :)
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He's a guy, we don't like texting. It's like asking why the guy you like hasn't offered to take you shoe shopping.
Most guys only text you because they feel obligated to, either because you like it, or because they know its an effective flirting technique.
Many of these types of guys find it really unnatural, unstimulating, and awkward. As a result, they're simply not good at it. Obviously humans try to avoid things they aren't good at or don't like.
These guys will respond and carry on a conversation if you are leading it, but they will rarely text you randomly throughout the day, unless its to ask you something practical, like out on a date.0