I been going out with my boyfriend for like 2 months nearly now and I don't know I just feel really weird and like just really awkward, I haven't really got a clue what I'm doing and all I know what your supposed to do is just talk, kiss and cuddle and just enjoy the time with each other, I'm really finding it hard to enjoy it properly though because of this feeling, it keeps making me think maybe I don't fancy him and that it's just not right or maybe we shouldn't be doing this or I just don't feel enough at all. I'm 22 and he's only just my first boyfriend, I'm not a virgin but still I even find the idea of sex weird lol I haven't got over that one ether yet and when it comes to doing more with him eventually I'm gonna feel really weird, when I've done it I am always left the feeling of "what just happened?" lol, I don't know how to get over it but I want to because it's tormenting me too much and preventing me from being comfortable, every time I see him I am OK after a while though but then I come home and after a few days I go back the same way again then start doubting things. Did anyone else feel this way?.
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I don't know, to me it sounds kinda weird that you'd feel that awkward around someone you like, especially if you've been together for two months already. Maybe you don't like him as much as you thought? Personally, I wouldn't be able to be together with someone if he made me that awkward. Like, I have to be 100% comfortable with him first. And I know this might not apply to everyone, but a lot of people think the idea of having sex with someone is nicer if you are extremely comfortable around each other, and possibly deeply in love too. Maybe you should reflect on your feelings for him? Or keep being in a relationship with him to see how it goes. If the weirdness doesn't go away, then maybe he's just not the right guy for you.0
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