I feel angry she texted him on nye obviously drunk saying happy nw year and then she said she ha glow sticks in between her boobs and my boyfriend told me and he said he won't reply.All I know he might o and apparently she said to him what she had for breakfast the next morning and just before he got another message and he made a noise and I was like what?what does she want?And he put the phone down and I said no if you have nothing to hide what did she say?And he said that she said did you get a New Year's Eve kiss?Why the hell would she ask him that?She would know he has a boyfriend and I've been on her page before and she has a boyfriend.I keep asking my boyfriend why is she asking him this and he said I don't know.I also have noticed she likes his photos too and I said why and he said I don't know.He doesn't know I know this but I know he messaged her a while back and he deleted the messages.From what I recall though they won't talk often,he knows I'm very insecure so he may of deleted it because of that.I feel so much more isecure and my boyfriend hasn't reassured me like he usually does,should I ask him why he hasn't reassured me or?I don't know what to do.I said how would you feel if that was me getting those messages and what would you do?He then said nothing,there's nothing I can do. what should I do?
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Give your boyfriend a break. He might have been messaging her and might have talked to her a bit in the past. But right now, I mean right at this moment, the only person who is doing wrong is the girl, NOT your boyfriend. And you saw the texts. so it means your boyfriend isn't hiding anything from you. If you want to attack anyone and take your anger and hurt on anyone, take a cab to where the girl is and beat the bitch up. Don't take it out on your boyfriend. If you do, the following two things will happen.
1. He will start hiding texts like this in the future afraid that you will react very badly.
2. You will confuse him and push him further away because by being transparent about those texts and by not acting on them he hasn't done anything wrong.
If you have some hard evidence of him straying, then do confront him. But now you don't, so have a big heart and be confident about yourself and laugh it off. Just say "whatever, how could she possibly be a threat."1
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