Do you think that its fair in a relationship to ask to/look at your partners texts and FB messages or anything like that
or is it private and shouldn't be looked at?
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Now, being in a relationship with someone for like a week or some short time frame =/ it may been seen in a bad light (distrusting/clingy/insecure) but if you're in a serious relationship then it really shouldn't be a problem.
Those who still see it in a bad light while being in a relationship probably value their privacy or are up to no good. XD
Yes, trust is the key to a good relationship but it's not the whole key that makes the relationship. As in - there are different components that go along with making a relationship work. Trust is a two way street. =/ It's not just about, "You shouldn't need to because you should trust mi." mmm that may very well be true but you should trust them with that information as well. You would more than likely have that privilege of looking at their messages or FB. If not, then they don't have that right to ask something of you that they wouldn't do for you. Unless of course you do not care/open.
Again, I speak in reference to a long term relationship and not a short term.0