Alright so I'd been talking to this guy for a few weeks, I'm really attracted to him and he's said that he thinks I'm beautiful. We'd been exchanging sweet texts and he'd send me cute texts all the time.
Yesterday was our first date and it was amazing. He was saying all these sweet things, like how pretty he thought I was. We went bowling and had a great time. When the guy who runs the bowling alley (they know each other) saw us together and asked my date "You don't have a girlfriend do you? She's cute, you're ugly!" (the guy was joking obviously) my date laughed and said "Well she's not my girlfriend YET, this is our first date." then looked at me and smiled.
After that we went to his place and kinda hooked up, we did NOT go all the way. Then we cuddled the rest of the night and watched a movie before it got too late and I had to head home.
He kissed me goodnight and said we can see each other next weekend (when he's off work) but he didn't walk me to my car. Given it was freezing outside but I thought he would.
Today though, I got no texts from him which hasn't been usual the past few weeks. I texted him 'Hi' to which he replied 'sup?'. From then on our conversation sounded more like he was talking to one of his buddies. When I brought up this coming weekend, he said 'It depends on what I'm doing this weekend.' To me that was was an OUCH.
I just don't understand what is going on now? We had a great time, he seemed to like me as much as I like him. He talked like it was obvious that we would become a couple. But with our text conversation earlier, it really threw me off. Did I make it all up in my head? Is this a guy thing to act like you don't care much about a girl after a date? Or am I reading too much into this?
If anyone could help me out, I would SO appreciate it. Thanks so much.
What the hell happened?
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Just read your update. Sorry but it sounds like after you had your first date he just wasn't feelin ya. I'm confused as to why you think you were used and played? He was just starting to get to know you for a couple weeks and you only just went on one date. There was nothing serious going on w you guys and he just decided he didn't want to continue to pursue things w you. I really don't think this makes him a bad guy. He just lost interest in you. It happens all the time. He's just clearin the way for a great guy to come into your life. Don't waste anymore time worrying bout this. Move on0