So I am talking to this guy and I was hanging out with my friend today and we were joking around because it was pouring outside. And she was like "It's so wet outside" in a sexual way. And then she thought it would be funny to text the guy I'm talking to as a joke so she texted "It's so wet..." and then in the next message, "Out!".
Of course I was driving when she took my phone. She was using it and helping me change the music while I was driving and so she texted him and he's a really nice, good guy. So right when we stopped, I texted back "Omg I'm so sorry lol. My friend was messing with my phone and I was driving so I couldn't stop her." And then he texts back "Likely story?". And I responded "It is true though. Not that you would know this, but I don't text with multiple exclamation points."
I'm going to see him tomorrow and now I feel awkward and I can't tell if he's mad or not mad, but just doesn't believe me. I think I hate texting lol. Any advice? I don't know if I'm looking for advice or just someone to put things in perspective, but yeah, thanks :).
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Sounds like he half flirted, at the same time it seems like he isn't fully certain... Otherwise there would be no Question Mark. I feel that you being defensive about it will have confused him abit, it'd be like... is she denying it so much because she's embarassed as it's true? or is she genuinely embarassed her friend sent it? Personally I say, just act like it never happened, if he brings it up you just casually say 'Yea, my friend thought it was funny...' His reaction would probably give a bit of insight as to what he's feeling.
I know this feeling anyway, my ex text her best friend (who I do completely fancy) that I liked her, I didn't say I sent it, but at the same time I didn't say it wasn't true. Because well it is true and I'd prefer to see if she's okay with that, than to be defensive and feel a bit of a tit, and essentially go back to square one of not knowing where I stand and unable to make the move that my ex did in one go.0