The guy I've been hanging out with calls me a psycho and stalker because I drove by his apartment to see if he was home. He saw me drive by and text me calling me psycho. I have my reasons: He lies to me when he says he's home and he's not...and he texts me when he's with his guy buddies, but when he's not home and doesn't answer my texts, I think he's at a females houses. Does it make me a stalker that I drive by?
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Yes. This (what you have written in your question) makes you look like a stalker, insecure, controlling, a bit off. Why do you think you need to check up on him? If you don't trust him then don't date him. If you are not in a relationship with him what business is it of yours anyway if he is at home or not?
The fact that he expresses to you that he thinks you are a stalker and a psycho should tell you that he is even more than "not that into you." He probably doesn't like you very much, and you are sending the wrong vibe by checking up on him.1