I really like this girl. We have known each other for 5 months. She knows I am interested in her and she keeps saying that she does want to go out with me. But so far she won't commit to actually going on a date. I feel that she is playing games.
Some people suggest going on dates with other girls while waiting for her to come around, rather than putting my life on hold for her. I am seriously considering it, but I don't feel right about it. If I start dating some other girls, would it be wrong to kiss them even though I really want this one girl? I mean a "real" kiss, not just a kiss on the cheek or forehead. If those other dates end up in having sex, would that be wrong since I really want that one girl?
I can already see some girls giving the "Well, if you were serious about her, you wouldn't be thinking of going out with other girls" speech. But guys would say that if a girl was really serious about someone, she wouldn't be putting him through these waiting games.
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Dude, you may want to have something with her but I see nothing wrong with dating and trying your luck elsewhere. Who knows... you might find someone special who'll make you forget about girl number one and who is actually into you for a change. Imagine that!
Also, don't allow women to pressure you to only date one person especially when neither she or you are willing to start a relationship.
How to notice when a girl is not interested in you: She denies your advances any advances and makes the just friends speach or is directly rude to you.
How to notice when she is playing hard to get to keep your interest in her: She accepts your dates but on her time table... so if you ask her out for tomorrow she may say no but then tells you that she has time on Friday night. You find yourself calling and texting her but SHE RESPONDS to your calls and texts. She is warm one minute cold the next and she is cold whenever you behave badly towards her.
How to notice that she is an emotionally clingy girl: She constantly calls you, demands you to date only her, thinks that she is entitled to princess treatment and a relationship with you because she likes you but doesn't really care if you respect her.0