to sit him down and bluntly break his heart in hopes he gets it this FIFTH TIME?
Isn't it his own choice to follow me around and initiate a friendship?
Why do I have to take responsibility for their feelings when he won't do it himself just because I do not want to date them and have told them that a few times and he refuses to accept it?
Why do I have to waste my time and put myself in an uncomfortable position for which I am labelled a "bitch" for making someone sad even though he's the one who chooses not to give up?!?!?
Seriously, WHAT THE f***?!
Why can't guys just realize NO MEANS NO!?!?!
I can't date the person I want to date and thus I have accepted it. Why can't men do this too?!?!? Why do they get the "only girl in the world" complex/delusion?!
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Men are given the message constantly that when it comes to courting a woman (and other endeavours), persistence pays off. That message comes from both sides of the gender line, so I don;t think it's fair to characterize it as a male problem.
"Why do I have to take responsibility for their feelings"
Because hopefully you are human and not one of the feminism-spawned heartless females who cares about no one but herself. Make it clear to the guy you're not interested but try to spare his feelings as much as you can while doing so. Lie to him if you must.0