On Sunday, I broke up with my boyfriend because things weren't going too well. I became really clingy and pushed him away by accusing him of cheating on me all the time. We barely talked like normal people because we'd constantly be arguing. The break-up was a mutual decision. I can admit that I was selfish. The next day he texted me saying that he cares about me and loves me very much, but he just needs some space so he can sort things out. I haven't texted him because I wanted to respect his wish. Today, he texted me and asked if I'd wanna see him tomorrow so we can talk. Any idea what this means?
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Wow, I answered your previous question by saying to NOT apologize to him, to let him go and give him some space. And wait for him to get back to you - the ball was in his court.
And DANG! He's already wanting to see you this quick?
Ok I don't know what the truth behind all this is, and I don't know what he's thinking based off your circumstances. But I'm keeping my fingers crossed that things work out between you two again.
But I'll say it one more time (ya it's getting annoying that I'm repeating myself, sorry) - keep working on your confidence! When you're not around him, work on improving your life. Your health, your schoolwork, job, money, whatever. Take care of yourself and make progress. That way, you won't come off clingy or needy to see him. You want to see him, but don't need to.
Anyway, let me know how it's going. Hoping things turn out well.0