There's this guy I'm kinda close with recently. We went on a date once, and I really like him.
The problem here is.. I don't know how he feels about me. Just recently, I found out from my friend that he said won't date me because I'm too kind. I was like, what? What did he mean by that? He said that I'm too kind and that he's afraid to hurt me. I don't understand. Guys, what do you think I should do? Why would guys not want to date a kind girl? He's really hurting me right now by saying those stuff. What should I do, turn evil or something?! :/ I'm so pissed because I know there was a chance, but because I'm "too kind", he's backing out!
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Kindness doesn't matter to most guys at a young age. The only thing that matters is, is she attractive?
That's basically it. If you're attractive, you're good to go, and if you're not, you're not.1