I'm a nice person. I'm nice to everyone unless they given me reasons not to be. I treat everyone the same, generally in the way I would like to be treated and I suppose I'm very friendly as I keep being told I am.
Guys keep mistaking this for me wanting to date them and it's starting to drive me crazy!
I'm vocal to all about how I'm not interested in dating ANYONE at this point of my life. I constantly drop hints to that effect when I feel as though they may be starting to like me yet they choose to ignore that and ask me out anyway.
I say no, and then they choose not to hear this and hold on to false hope BECAUSE I AM NICE then they wait a bit and ask me out again and again I say no.
I am not flirty, I am just nice. I do not initiate any contact, friendship or anything and I feel like they're over reading something that is not there.
How do I get guys to stop misinterpreting friendliness that I give to everyone for my desire to date them!?
(I also don't think it's feasible to constantly sit guys down and explain to them time and time again that I don't want to date them and never will.)
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LOL you sound like me, I just like being friendly, am always wiling to help people as much as I can.
Some girls, hit on me an get jealous when I treat other girls the same, I often follow my heart, an enjoy being single atm.0