There is a guy I like. At first I did not like but after he accepted me on Facebook. We would non stop message me. After a few weeks of contacting each other. I asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said yes. So this make this complicated! He told me that he does like me and I told him about my feelings. He would always be the to initiated the texting. A few times we have also had phone sex. There was one day that I told I that minimise the amount of contact we do. But we work at the same workplace. We do not work in the same departments though. When we do run into each other. I can see him staring at me and I can feel something between us! I am trying to move on as I am contacting another guy. But its not easy I still like him! What should do?
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you have two things going against you here.
a) you are essentially a mistress participating in a boyfriend being unfaithful to his girlfriend
b) the guy is a cheater, so he would more than likely repeat that behavior with another person (e.g. you)
You should stop the relationship that you have with him. Tell him that as long as he has a girlfriend you will NOT participate in anything other than a friendly conversation, and anything else is out of the question. But you need to know that you are dealing witha guy who seemingly has no qualms about being unfaithful. Now whether he just is in a bad patch with his girlfriend or is just a unfaithful person regardless you can and should assume that it is behavior he would repeat with you if you two were suddenly dating.
This situation is mucked with so many potential problems not to mention the sheer wrongness of cheating...I would steer clear of him or draw a serious line in the sand0