So, why ladies? I see these nice, classy women dating total losers? This isn't necessarily a nice guy/bad guy question. But, I'm talking about guys who have no life, very little personality, don't even have good looks, look like tgey just came off the street, and smell like body oder. I don't understand it.
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Maybe some of these girls wanted relationships badly? So badly they settled for something. Or maybe some of them lack confidence and think that is all they can get?
It's hard to tell. I used to date guys who were kinda crappy because no one else expressed interest. I was bullied a lot in high school for being a bigger girl, yet when I look back at my pictures I shake my head. I wasn't that bad. Basically I developed uber early and everyone made me feel like a monster because of it. Now all those girls and guys who teased me are not exactly catches anymore.
But I dated a couple guys who treated me poorly. One guy blamed his drug addiction on me (even though I never introduced him to drugs or even did drugs). Another would date me then break up with me when he found someone 'better'.
They weren't the most attractive guys either. But I lived in a small town and pickings were slim. Guys never asked me out. Maybe this is what happened with some of those girls? They just didn't see that you were interested so they found someone who was.
Thing is, if you like a girl, let her know. Don't just let her think you might like her. You have to let her know by telling her. Same with girls, if you like a guy, let him know.
I know it's nerve wracking, maybe they won't like you back and in some cases you will be right. But if you don't take a chance you will never know.
Flirt with the girl you like more, give her compliments, initiate conversations and try to get her to hang out with you.