Ok so there's this guy at my school. His name is Mike. Everyone says he's a wicked player and a couple of my friends have dated him and have nothing nice to say. Kristen said he spread rumors about her when she dumped him and Carley said he cheated on her. But it was four years ago when he cheated...im so confused..help!
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the bottom answer of the guys is spot on, you KNOW he is no good for you, you are not confused, you have a situation similar to doing drugs, it is quite obvious is a wrong thing to do, but you want to try it for the exitement, and yes, it is also valid, but don't play dumb, you know it is wrong and you know what you are getting into, just be CAREFUL and once you make your choice live with it, because you can not say latter that you were not warned, and yes, as cold as it sounds, don't come latter to ask "how do I make him change?" = YOU DONT, or "is he playing with me?" =VERY LIKELY, "why would he...?" = you knew it was comming, and please, don t ever come with "how do I get back at him for what he did to me?" = you are NOT the victim, you choose to swim along the sharks, enjoy the thrill, try avoiding the jaws, if you are injured patch it up and hopefully learn from your mistake.1