I've gone on 2 dates with this guy. He is attractive, has a nice body it seems, and from what he's told me he gets good grades and doesn't party much. So, I can't complain about that, but I've been iffy about him since he asked me out. I feel like he's a little boring and doesn't make me feel excited to hang out with him like I do when I've hung out with other guys I really like. And he reminds me a little of my brother, which obviously is a turn off.
A friend of mine from over a year ago got in touch with me a couple weeks ago. We almost dated when we knew each other before, but things got in the way and it didn't happen. Well, he's been talking to me a lot lately and I'm pretty sure he still has feelings for me. I've thought about him a lot over the past year.
So, I'm really not sure how I feel. Sometimes I think I'm trying to make excuses to stop talking to the guy who I've been out with a couple times. Other times, I really don't think it would work out with this because I just don't feel that attracted to him.
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Just from the fact that you're posting this question and from your description, I say it's not that you're talking yourself out, you were just never feeling that spark to begin with.
I say stop seeing the guy if you find yourself just pointing out the bad things, that's not how any healthy relationship should work.2