So I am single again. I am not sure what I did was the right thing to do. As some of you must have known, I was dating a guy for 2 weeks. I met his parents and then my date and I went to meet my friends for dinner and desert. My date of two weeks told me that he went with a masseuse that offered him a “happy ending” but of course he said no. That of course put a little seed of doubt in my mind. I decided to let this go but I was not impressed...not one bit.
Then as we were walking towards the venue hand in hand, he then decided it was appropriate to check out every single girl. Fine you can look but you cannot touch. Now I was feeling fine, looking sexy and smelling good and he didn’t even compliment me on my appearance! I decided to let this go too.
The next day, he met another bunch of my mates and he didn’t pay attention to me the WHOLE night AT ALL. I am not clingy but I would like him to talk to me a little bit. Mainly because he was so engrossed with one of my girlfriends. Then we walked around he the WHOLE NIGHT he AGAIN was checking out other chicks. I am feeling less and less attractive at that point even though I put like an hour into my appearance so he can appreciate me a little bit. I know I look hot and I know that, but I want him to tell me for goodness sake! I need to hear it! You know how he greeted me when I arrived at his house? He was like “ay” and then told me to come in. The look on his eyes was akin to as if he was looking at a tree or something.
So anyway, the night came at an end and I decided to give him one last chance to make me feel special so I proceeded to make out with him and the connection just wasn’t there. So then I pulled away from him and I started driving. We were really silent and I wasn’t feeling great because of him. So then I said “I don’t think we should see each other again” and he said “ok...why?” and then I said “I don’t have a connection with you” really abruptly to which he said “ok then”.
When we arrived at his house, he said “well i’ll speak to you sometime then” to which I replied “eh” and then he quickly got out of my car and then I sped off. Was I over-reacting? Do I have a problem? I need your honest opinions but please be respectful. I just wasn’t feeling special and I am not one of those desperate chicks that stay with a guy if he is going to treat her like crap. If you treat me less than a queen, I'm leaving.
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No, I just needed to read the first paragraph to know this guy was a douche. In fact, I knew he was a douche at "he told me his masseuse offered him a happy ending"...and you needed to know that why? Oh yeah...because he just wanted a reaction out of you...because you're a little toy with buttons and it's entertaining for him, that's why.1