so a girl I like and I have been texting for about a month and a half, maybe two, and she is great - I love talking to her. she even asked me before if I promised to text her. but lately, she has been giving me minimal answers.. not caring on the conversation, making it very difficult to talk with her. making it seem as if I were bothering her, or making it seem as if she doesn't wanna text me. I'm so confused, and it just seemed as if this happened over night.. one day she would stay up almost all night talking with me about anything and everything and the next day I get "cool," "that sucks,"
"lol" etc etc as answers.. making it very difficult. I'm so confused, I don't wanna bother her and keep persisting if she doesn't wanna talk but just the other week she was essentially begging me to text her... so confused
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Ya know, I'm thinking she's confused also and fustrated.
Maybe she thought it could of been something between you two and you would of at least asked her out already.
Maybe she thinks you only see her as a friend, and not a sexual partner, or your not intrested in getting romantically involved with her. When a girl spends a lot of time around a guy weather talking on the phone, that also include texts and etc.. I'm assuming there's a level of intrested there on her part.
And when the feeling isn't reciprocated, we tend to shy away, not cause we stop liking you..because we are embarrassed..or we feel to available to you etc... She's probably hurt and confused assuming nothing romantic will come out of this.. I bet you she's sad :-( waiting for you to acknowledge what's going on with her hoping your willing to discussed it... She probably thinks she's annoying you!,. she's just taking a step back, before she get hurt or end up hating you for no reason...but in her head it's because she like you and you don't feel the same.
Or...she could be seeing someone else now and don't have time to play this game with you anymore.but I'm hoping it's the first one...lol..I just love ...love stories..good luck.0
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