I mean 5 - 10 years younger. I've starting seeing this girl, she's 20 (I'm 27)and she's perfect. She really is, she has all you could wish for.
I was talking to a coworker and when she asked how old my girlfriend is I obiously didn't lie. She was like "omg you're such a douche bag, you should date women your age, not girls that young."
But why not? I like her and she likes me, it's not like I was particulary looking for young girls. But to be honest with my age I often feel they put a lot of pressure on you to get married and start family. I'd rather wait 4-6 with that. And yes of course young and pretty and she'll say so longer than women my age, but that's only a plus not the main point
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Nothing's morally bad, it's just that a girl who is 20 is in a different maturity zone. You want to delay having to grow up and be responsible a little longer by dating a younger chick. It's not exactly uncommon. Having fun is fun -- sometimes girls get a little jealous that guys get to prolong their carefree period a little longer without taking any flack. Also, since guys tend to value youth, looks and other superficial things over individual personality traits, we often have to compromise on those "fun" traits in a partner to find other traits we want. Like dating a guy we find less attractive or less funny to get a guy who is reliable or responsible. It's just one of those things in life that can be hard to accept.
In this particular case, maybe this girl has a crush on you or something. People can be mean when they're disappointed.0