Me and my ex started talking about a month ago. My friend told me he loved me and still had feelings for me. Everything was going great until we had s-x, then I kinda became distant. I kinda pushed him away and avoided him. I think it's because I didn't exactly know how to take him (broke up about a year ago) We never had a break up talk and I had so many questions on my mind from last year. Wasn't a good break up. So I didn't know what to think..
I said something that turned him off one night when I was drunk and kept saying I needed to go home (He drove me to his house because I couldn't drive) He said he felt weird and that pushed him away.
Well after that I didn't text or call him or make any effort because I didn't know if he wanted to talk to me after that. Even though he was all I thought about for those 2 weeks..I just had so many things on my mind from our relationship before. I found out he went on two dates with this other girl after. He told my friend that he went on the two dates and he said if I would have called or texted him, he would have never went on those dates with her. Thought I wasn't interested. He said he needs a girl to make effort and take control in a relationship. He's used to girls taking control, and that I do hold to much in. Someone who knows what they want.
I talked to him Friday night and he was honest about the girl and I asked him if he liked her. He said he hasn't talked to her since the dates and doesn't know how he feels or what he wants. He's in a happy place. Busy with work and football. Since then I texted him saying sorry for ignoring him and distancing myself because I didn't exactly knew how he felt, and called him yesterday but never called back. I'm trying to make effort but I don't know if I was giving to much emotion because he pushed away. I know guys don't like emotion.
I feel like if I called or texted him I wouldn't bein this situation. We'd be fine.I feel so stupid! I know it's my fault for not cummunicating and being insecure. I don't know know if I should wait and see if he calls or just text or make some effort in the next couple of days? He might need some time I don't know but I can't let him go because I love him to much. I know I want him. I don't want to see him with anyone else. What should I do? :(
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